The Love you don’t first receive by Faith you can’t pour out to others because you can Never give what you don’t have. Apostle John speaking in 1John 4:16(KJV) says:
16 And we have known and believed the love that God hath to us. God is love; and he that dwelleth in love dwelleth in God, and God in him.
The Lord desires that we first know the Love He has for us, then believe it. For it is in our believing His Love fpr us, that we can receive it and be filled with All the fullness of God; being empowered to act on it Eph.3:17-19. We are to come to the realization of His unfailing loving-kindness towards us, and this should inform our thoughts and expectation of Him towards us, rather than the thoughts of fear, judgement and condemnation. Thus He says He has not given us the Spirit of fear but the Spirit of Power, Love and a Sound Mind; for perfect Love casts out fear 2Tim.1:7 & 1John4:18.
Thus from the position of Love we are to interpret scriptures because Love is who God is 1John4:8 and the heart and motive in which He speaks to us is Grace. Thus His heart; that is the base of everything He speaks to us is from the heart of Grace manifest by His love for us.
So, are you sad today, feeling lost and dejected? Or is your life seemingly complex that you don’t think you can give out anymore love to others? Take heart in His Love for you today; study it, feed on it, meditate on His Love and go on to receive it by fath into your heart and life. Then, you would reap the unlimited divided of His love shining and flowing through you even to others when you least expect it, because in Him your love tank is ALWAYS full.